Where Is The Love?

This is gonna be an entry, that serves as a harsh reminder to us all. The reality of human relationships, ever-changing like a Taiwanese 1000-episodes soap drama.

Pardon me if I sound too "emo" here. Ha!

Here I go.....

It's funny thinking of,

• how easily a long friendship/relationship can be broken off by some words, yet it is so difficult to maintain it.

• how words can be so easily misinterpreted to the way you want it to be, yet so difficult to correct and undo the unintended "misinterpretation".

• how easy assumptions can change a perception of a person's thinking, yet so difficult to change the mindset of a prejudiced mindset.

• how easy a person can insist that he's right in his thinking, yet so difficult for him to accept other people's suggestions.

• how easy it is to upset someone you care and love for, yet so difficult to apologise to that same person for the hurt you have caused to them.

• how easy it is to accuse people of something they haven't done, yet so difficult to prove it and pick up the broken pieces of the friendship/relationship.

• how easy past grudges in your heart, can affect your mindset towards your present friendship/relationship now, and yet so difficult to forgive those people.

• how easy is it to break the heart(s) of those who loved and cared for you, yet so difficult to see the hurt and mistakes you have done to them.

If only.....

I can go on for days, but I think we all should learn to mature our mindsets and not jump to conclusions so easily. Clarify your doubts out and not bottle them up, until you wanna explode like a volcano one day and "kill" everyone around, who cares for you.

These are some of the many relationships I treasure dearly in my heart, especially over this past 10 years.

It's sad to know how friendships/relationships can be so easily broken and so difficult to mend them back. Sighs. Treasure those around you, especially your family and close friends. Dun neglect anyone of them, just bcos you're so busy on one end of the balance.

Why kill the happy memories that we all once shared together, just bcos of some uncleared misunderstandings? Is it really worth sacrificing the friendship/relationship? Sighs. 

It's so disheartening and saddening, you know. The tears, the exasperation, the frustration, the anger and the annoyance. Do you even know?

I/We love you, no matter how shitty things have become.

Forgive and forget. Period.