sumtimes its gd to set aside time to reflect.. to tink abt ur stuff tt u haf left aside in ur mind.. e probs n unsettled matters tt u had no time to settle.. simple examples can be: relationships.. there are many diff kinds.. BGR, frenships, family etc.. many a time in our lives, we tend to overlook certain aspects esp our probs, tinking tt they r not worth tinking n tt they were a nuisance.. yes they are indeed a pest in our thots, but if we dun settle them quick, u'll oni drag on n delay e settling of e BIG prob in ur mind.. all of us, at least haf sth in our hearts rite now tt is bothering us.. e oni ting is tt we dun even bother to care abt how r we gonna solve it..
another eg: ur future.. wad r u gonna do rite aft ur poly ed? wad r ur goals n plans in life? i noe all of us haf heard dis qn umpteen times, yet did we ever bother to gif tt qn a thot 4 a few mins? i din.. alex n daniel asked me dis qn b4.. i did tink over it yet i din really thot of tt seriously yet.. we r now having holidays rite.. y not let's take dis last few wks of dis holi, juz b4 sch reopens.. juz to tink a little.. gif it a little thot.. write out a plan list.. from now till aft graduation from poly.. wad u wana do n y?
recently, many pple haf been troubled over many stuff.. i duno y either.. it seems to b a pattern.. probs cum n leave all tgt at e same time.. maybe having long holidays indeed haf their pros n cons lor.. indeed we haf time to reflect on our stuff.. yet sumtimes we tend to tink too much n wonder to e worst consequences.. no names mentioned.. juz tt i feel tt sumtimes we really can let out thots run wild.. so wild tt we can even land into depression.. e degree of seriousness of e depression do varies.. im not joking or wadeva.. i tink we sld really tink of our probs n stuff frm diff perspectives, aspects n angles..
my motto in life: alw look on e bright side of life, u'll feel happier.. *sounds lyk NIKE's ad?!~* yeah~ i totally agree w tt statement.. pple who noe me v well, they usually c me as a optimistic gal.. alw smiling, alw telling pple 'dun worry', 'smile always' rite.. u may tink i dun understand ur feelings, e torment within u as u struggles alone w ur probs.. yet many frenz of mine, they haf approached me whenever they haf stuff bothering them.. im not trying to advertise myself or brag.. i guess wad im saying is tt, they c me as sum1 who is able to help them by giving them gd advice n or juz simple encouragement.. im no god.. im not thick-skinned.. all i wana say is tt, if u haf probs troubling u or stuff tt u haf been struggling wif, tok it out w sb u r close wif, n who is trustworthy, in our eyes.. yeah~ ^^v
whenever u decide to do ur self-reflection.. do it sumwhere quiet, where u r close w ur thots alone.. egs: a quiet park, in ur bedroom, bathroom or simply by e sea.. yupz 4 me, i alw do in my bedroom; on my bed, under my blanket.. haha~ aniwae gif dis sum thot.. worth tinking over ba.. cheers!
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