Friday, April 02, 2004

hey pple~ got dis frm an email.. v meaningful..

When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure. But when
you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher. In the game of love,it doesn't really matter who won or who lost. What is important is you
know when to hold on and when to let go! You know you really love someone when
you want him or her to be happy, even if their happiness means that you're not
part of it.

Everything happens for the best.

If the person you love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try.
You'll never love a person you love unless you risk for love. Love strives
in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you don't learn how to love.

Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though the hurting is still there to test
you, it is to help you grow. Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's
called falling in love because you don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on,
then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is
a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and
growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on
and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only
when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than
we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then
get beckon the horse. But don't ever make the same mistake of riding the same
one that threw you the first time.

To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk
failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is
risk nothing! To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your
feelings is to expose true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in
return . How to define love: fall but do not stumble, be constant but not
too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not
to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.

Love is like a knife. It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful
images into the soul that always last for a lifetime. Love is supposed to be the
most wonderful feeling. It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you
in the end. Loving people means giving them the freedom who they choose to
be and where they choose to be. For all the heartaches and the tears, for gloomy
days and fruitless years, you should give thanks, for you know, that there were
the things that helped you grow.Loving someone means giving him the freedom to find his way, whether it
leads towards you or away from you. Love is a painful risk to take
but the risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then
you'll experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.

Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.

Only love can make you cry and only love knows why. If you're not ready to
cry, if you're not ready to take the risk, if you're not ready to feel the pain,
then you're not ready to fall in love. There was a time in our lives when we
became afraid to fall in love 'coz every time we do, we get hurt, and then I
figured that's why it's called falling in love.

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